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Erick Kuhni's avatar

great article - agreed. The experiences I had working with older men, including my a 15 year business partnership with my Dad, were the most critical professional experiences in my life.

Don Peterson's avatar

Katy, this is sooooooo good. Your words are so well crafted and so meaningfully impactful. I’ll be honest, I cried a little. Too often they’ve been lost and forgotten. Thank you for remembering our boys.

Katy Talento ND ScM's avatar

Thank you so much Don, so glad it resonated. Share widely!

Jack's avatar

Thank you for the post.

Your guidance reminds me of a few of Scott Galloway's books: Notes on Being a Man, The Algebra of Happiness: Notes on the Pursuit of Success, Love, and Meaning, and Adrift: America in 100 charts. It also reminds me of Mike Rowe, a television host and advocate known for promoting skilled trades and hands-on labor through his foundation, mikeroweWORKS, and the show Dirty Jobs.

As a parent, in addition to sports endeavors and academics, exposed our son to church and scout membership. Some scout troops have monthly camping, backpacking, and other excursions/practical learning activities in nature.

Katy Talento ND ScM's avatar

Yes 💯 to all those points!!!

Travis Neville Author's avatar

Katy, Excellent work here. Please keep shedding light on the proper trajectory of boys. You are making the world a better place for everyone. Thank you.

Katy Talento ND ScM's avatar

Thanks so much Travis!!! Appreciate you.

Scott Asai's avatar

This is awesome Katy!

Katy Talento ND ScM's avatar

Thank you so much Scott!!

Scott Asai's avatar

As a homeschooling dad of two kids (although my wife is the teacher) I fully endorse your POV!

Brenon Duff's avatar

I totally agree with you and you express it so well. I have no kids of my own but I used to take some boys from a housing project to a park. I taught them how to climb trees safely, since they weren't allowed to do so at home. Also showed them how to skip stones on the water and they didn't want to go back home but just kept working their way down the river.

Also spent time with two young brothers who were in public school, private school, homeschool, and unschool. It was easy to see how these different types of schooling affected them. Their mother once took them to Wyoming to live and work on a ranch. So practical!

I myself grew up in the Philippines. I loved it there because of the abundance of nature and I was into it everyday.

Katy Talento ND ScM's avatar

Yes, thank you for being such a role model for all these boys! We need more like you!

Pete's avatar

Well written article! We're on the homeschooling path, and very thankful we don't need our son to sit in school. It's not designed for boys to succeed, and we're focused on getting our kids lots of sunlight. I've seen too many examples of teachers pushing parents to medicate their boys who have too much energy and have a hard time sitting still.

Katy Talento ND ScM's avatar

💯 Pete! Thanks so much for reading.